..wow, it feels so strange to come back around, amazing, astonishing and terrifying all at the same time...
G'day everyone, how's everything going~
So...of course, I can't stumble back in here without a good explanation and everything...here it is. I owe you this one, I really do.
So the last year and the one before I was in a deep personal and kind existential crisis.
Since I got my first own computer I always admired DeviantArt and all its artists and wanted to be part of it, but I didn't gather the courage to sign up. But in that hard time, I decided to try and fulfill me said dream: be a part of DeviantArt's exuberant community. It was a self-experiment as, what I lately enough came to realize, the spark of hope in a lifetime that was insecure and dark. DeviantArt, my followers and all the friends I made here were my safe haven.
I came to deeply appreciate and love everyone around here. I made freinds which meant and still mean much to me. All of them were a big help, and to be quite sincere now: I love you. Here, I am talking especially to:
Aranren ,
AyoraPics ,
JustABrokenSpirit ,
SketchyTheSkeptical ,
UkaniDraws and
Lehvira ( just changed your name darling! Didn't see it at first XD ).
Still...as you noticed, my abscence time here became longer and longer, until I disappeared for more than half a year.
There are multiple reasons for it:
I am almost out of the crisis and to not need this place as a safe haven anymore, but since I do care for you nevertheless I won't leave this forever, how could I.
Also, I am finishing school this year and everyone who already went through it knows...it's more than exhausing. My finals are in 6 weeks and I'm completely nuts with studying. Sadly, I am that type of artist who loses motivation and inspiration when stressed...
Also I have to f*cking decide what to do after school and working on that the last freetime is gone.
So, the point is...I really missed you, but I was also damn afraid to come online and tell everyone what is up because I was away for so long....and the more time passe,d the more afraid I became.
When I went online to try and explain I was totally overwhelmed by the amount of messages. I do have problem, which is that I am extremely responsible and perfectionistic, to the point that I put other wellbeing over mine...so I always tried to be kind to everyone, write the kind of comment I would want to get and answer everything. It was so much fun, but also stressy and at some point I couldn't face it anymore. I do not blame you! But I know I raise certain expectations with said behavior and I just can't keep it up anymore, especially now.
So, I wanna say once and for all: I am sorry.
Damn I'm afraid to have lost your trust and caring, but if I did, I would understand and won't blame you for it.
I know I already said it in some other journal, but know I'm going to be sincere: I won't be online until the end of school and then I'll need time to come back. I am surely won't be online as often as I was before, but that doesn't mean that I don't like you or want to avoid you.
I feel especially guilty towards lovely and caring friends who drew and wrote me gifts which I do still appreciate so much and couldn't ever give back the favour.My special thought go to:
and
who gifted me many things <3 .
So, what will happen right now: Nothing. I'll be gone again for some 4-5 months more after uoloading this because I can't bear any discussions right now. After that I'll come back to talk everything out.
So...that's it. Now, those who wanna know what I am up to lately can go on reading, to everyone else: Thank you for taking your time to read this
.
About me:
-My finals in math, German, English and biology are in 7/8 weeks and I'm dying inside.
-I kinda know what I'll do after school (a natural voluntary year) but it's still all very unplanned XD.
-My German Grandma is very ill and I'm worried (but she's still a lovely snarky b*tch <3 so I think she won't die soon
).
-I've got my first boyfriend! It's been 4 months know and he is even more crazy than I am.
-I am more than obsessed with the Witcher
~
(as well as Riverdale ).
-I think I've got a thing for men, like...men because Geralt de Rivia and FP Jones are makine me go nuts.
...yeah that's it.
Love you all!
I would love to hear from you what I missed, but since I do not think I'll be online again till July let's just talk then...